Relational Intelligence · Executive Coach

You Meant it one way. 
It Came out wrong. 
Again.

I help high-functioning adults stay connected to themselves when it's hardest - in the conversations, the relationships, and the decisions that matter most.

IS THIS YOU?

You Don't Want to keep doing the Thing.
But you keep doing it anyway.

You didn't mean to react that way. But you did.

And now you're berating yourself for yet...

  • another meeting where you haven't held your ground

  • another time when you snapped because you couldn't hold it in

  • another boundary you haven't stood by

  • another conversation where you didn't show up as you'd intended

You know what you're doing.

You know it's not going to give you the results you're looking for.

What you can't figure out is why you keep doing it.

And how to do it right.

That gap between now and your ideal how is what I help you cross.

WHAT BECOMES POSSIBLE

What changes when we work together

From reactive to responsive

You regulate under pressure rather than react from pattern. You're back at the helm.

Decisions become yours again

The circling stops. You can feel what's true for you - separate from all the pressure. And you act from there.

Relationships stabilise

You stay present, hold your ground, and stop ending up somewhere you didn't choose.

Hi! My name is Allegra Salvoni...

Power. Presence.
Relational Clarity.

Three capacities. One integrated practice.

01.

Relational Intelligence

Knowing what's yours and what's theirs — even in the middle of intensity. When you have this, you can stay in difficult conversations without raging, falling apart or running away. You stop taking on what isn't yours to carry. You stop disappearing to keep the peace.

02.

Regulation Under Pressure

This is not about staying calm. It's about staying connected to yourself when stakes are high. Recognising when your nervous system has narrowed your choices before your mind catches up — and building the capacity to respond from a different state entirely.

03.

Presence Over Pattern

The difference between leading from who you actually are instead of reacting from old patterns. When you develop this, you stop being run by the situation. Your decisions feel like yours. Your relationships become navigable. You stay with yourself - or if you slip - you recover quicker. Your decisions, values, and actions become aligned again. Not perfectly — but directionally.

Coaching that keeps you intentional.

Allegra changed my life.

As a CEO what kept me awake at night was relationships. Dysfunctional, non-performing, avoidant. And change, major life change.

Allegra helped me see into myself, and my experience of others, which gave me insight to help me better.

This enabled me to navigate the biggest changes in my life - building a business, transitioning the CEO role, divorcing, single parenting, moving house.

Thank you, Allegra 

Founder | Advisor to Founder CEOs

Allegra has guided me through understanding the deeper drivers behind my emotions and behaviours, helping me explore not just how I reacted, but why. Her ability to create a completely safe, supportive, and non‑judgmental space allowed me to examine long‑held patterns across both my personal and professional life. Through this work, I’ve not only changed my actions, I’ve genuinely changed how I feel and how I experience challenging situations.

Whatever your goals, professional growth, emotional understanding, improved relationships, or simply wanting to feel more at ease in your own skin, she has an extraordinary ability to help you uncover the insights and actions that will move you forward. Working with her has been one of the most valuable investments I’ve ever made in myself.

Staff Data Manager - Data Governance and Compliance Management

Allegra operates at a rare intersection of executive coaching and therapeutic depth, she understands the professional pressures leaders face while also meeting you fully as a human being.

She has an extraordinary ability to ask the question you didn't know you needed to answer.

If you are a founder, executive, or high-performer who is running on fumes and wondering why; reach out to Allegra.

Don't wait six months like I did.

Relationship-Driven Sales Leader | Startup Sales Expert

HOW WE WORK

The work happens at the intersection of body,
mind and relationship.

Most approaches to change work with thought. They help you understand what's happening — and understanding is important. But if thought alone could fix it, it would already be fixed.

We work with the body as much as the mind. Because what goes offline under pressure isn't your thinking - it's your ability to stay connected to yourself. And that's not a cognitive problem. 

Using the Into Me See methodology, we slow down what usually happens too fast to catch. We make the invisible visible. And we build — step by step — the capacity to stay present in the moments that used to run you.

THE INTO ME SEE METHOD

Orient
Stay
Sense
Check
Name
Own
Pivot
01 — Orient Where are you, right now? Before anything else, we find out where you actually are. Not where you think you should be — where you are. What's happening in the body. What's present. What's being avoided. This is the ground everything else is built on.
02 — Stay Resist the urge to move. Most change fails because we move too fast. We intellectualise, fix, or distract before something real has had the chance to surface. We learn to stay with what's present — with discomfort, with not-knowing — long enough for something true to emerge.
03 — Sense The body already knows. We bring attention to what the body is doing — not as a concept but as live information. The tightening in the chest. The held breath. The sense of collapse or bracing. Your nervous system is speaking. We learn to listen to it as data, not noise.
04 — Check What are you taking for granted? We examine the assumptions running underneath the pattern. What are you taking for granted that might not be true? What are you protecting that no longer needs protecting? What have you concluded about yourself or others that is running the show unchecked?
05 — Name Precision is everything. Naming what is actually happening — not the story around it, but the precise experience — is one of the most powerful moves we make together. The right word changes everything. It creates separation between you and the experience, and with that separation comes choice.
06 — Own Not blame. Agency. Ownership — of your part, your pattern, your capacity to respond differently. This is not about fault or self-criticism. It's about recognising that if the pattern is yours, so is the power to change it. This is where agency returns — quietly and solidly.
07 — Pivot From here, something new is possible. Not a strategy — a different state to act from. When the previous six steps have done their work, a pivot isn't forced. It arrives. A different response becomes available that wasn't available before. This is where the work meets real life — and where it holds.
This isn't a linear process. It's a developing capacity — one that becomes more available to you under pressure over time. The aim isn't to be perfect. It's to have choice.

Why work with me?

For over 25 years I've worked with people in significant life transitions, high functioning, smart, emotionally literate people — at what I call node points. These are the places where the old ways don't work, don't align, don't feel like us anymore - but where the new way has not yet emerged. My passion is to help people find their way forward - or back to themselves - stepping into a version of themselves that doesn't cost them so much.

I am a an ICF PCC-accredited coach, with a background in Gestalt Psychotherapeutic Counselling, trauma treatment methodology, body-oriented processing and relational intelligence.

Being triggered is all-consuming.

You lose access to yourself and take yourself offline in a way that does not serve you, your team, your role, your family - but mainly yourself.

I created the Into Me See Method — a seven-step process that gives that experience structure, so you can work with it rather than be run by it.

True power is about being able to choose how you are going to deal with what life throws at you.

Work with me to shape your life in the way you want it. Your reactions will become responses and your actions intentional and, more importantly, choiceful. 

Accreditations, Membership Bodies, Training and Certificates

Certified Embodied Facilitator Coach

Organization and Relationship Systems Coaching (ORSC™)

Somatic Psychology & Analysis System

Body Oriented Coach Training

Deep Brain Reorienting Level 1 & 2

GoldMind ADHD Coach Training Level 1 & 2

READY TO START?

The work begins with a conversation.

Three ways to start.

All are intensive and relational. The difference is time horizon and depth of scope. If you're not sure which fits, we'll figure it out together in a first conversation.

If something on this page has felt true — that's information. You don't need to have it figured out before you reach out. That's what our first conversation is for.

Fast Track

The 4-Week Reset

4 Weeks · Weekly sessions + Between-session support

For when something is escalating and can't wait. We stabilise fast — identifying what's driving the reactivity, developing immediate capacity to regulate, and giving you something real to work with inside a month.

For: a specific situation that's acute — a relationship under strain, making high-stakes decisions, a role or life transition that's turning out to be harder than expected.

Deep Work

The Integration Partnership

6 months · Ongoing weekly sessions

For bigger transitions — across work, relationships, identity, and everything in between. We go to the root of what's running the pattern, build the capacity to hold complexity without fragmenting, and make sure what changes actually holds.

For: executives and leaders navigating sustained pressure, relational breakdown, identity shift, or the feeling that something fundamental needs to change.

Specialist Entry

The Clarity Session

One session · Followed by optional continuation

You bring the person, the dynamic, the situation — a client who won't engage, a team member who's difficult to work with, a relationship dynamic you can't seem to shift. We map what's actually happening and what a different approach might look like.

You leave with clarity and a concrete next step.

For: leaders or coaches dealing with a specific person or dynamic that isn't responding to what usually works.

For Coaches

Expanding Your Range

Six sessions · Case-based · Ongoing as needed

For coaches working with clients where standard approaches aren't landing. We explore what's actually happening in those conversations and develop new ways of working that create real movement.

This isn't supervision. It isn't CPD. It's the work that changes how you work.

For: coaches ready to go beyond technique into the relational and somatic dimensions of their practice.

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What Clients Say

Working with Allegra has been genuinely transformative for me.

She combines steadiness with sharp insight, and I felt held and met in a way that made real, impactful change, possible. What stood out was how she helped me build relational capacity from the inside out — using a grounded, body-based approach to regulate under pressure, stay present in difficult moments, and help me remain connected rather than reactive.

Sabrina Singh - Founding Partner, Event Goods Delivered

I cannot sing Allegra's praises enough, she is incredibly gifted as a coach. Her warmth and authenticity shine through in every session. Things have transformed for me in the year that we've worked together in terms of how I show up in my job and how I show up for myself. She creates the necessary safety for my emotions to flow with my thoughts, which leads to deep and enriching exploration. We have had powerful conversations that I still reflect and learn from months later. Thank you, Allegra, for co-creating with me and helping me sit in the driving seat of my own life!

Victoria ChardonFounder, Mothering Mindfully | Women’s Leadership and Matrescence Coach | Experienced Tech Leader

Allegra is a wonderfully warm and intuitive coach, gently holding space for you when needs be, but at the same time always keeping you challenged and on purpose. Her knowledge of several different disciplines is invaluable and gives her coaching a real depth and authenticity. You just know you're in really safe hands! Allegra guided me through a particularly difficult time in my personal life and a crossroads in my career, helping me to get from a place of real 'stuckness' to a place of empowering clarity. Since working with her I have embarked on a new career path, grown in confidence and taken on new challenges. I'm not sure I could have done it without Allegra's guidance and support and I recommend her without hesitation

Lucy FleetFilm Publicist, Communications Consultant & Co-Active Coach