
Relational Intelligence · Executive Coach
You didn't mean to react that way. But you did.
And now you're berating yourself for yet...
another meeting where you haven't held your ground
another time when you snapped because you couldn't hold it in
another boundary you haven't stood by
another conversation where you didn't show up as you'd intended
You know what you're doing.
You know it's not going to give you the results you're looking for.
What you can't figure out is why you keep doing it.
And how to do it right.
That gap between now and your ideal how is what I help you cross.

You regulate under pressure rather than react from pattern. You're back at the helm.

The circling stops. You can feel what's true for you - separate from all the pressure. And you act from there.

You stay present, hold your ground, and stop ending up somewhere you didn't choose.
Hi! My name is Allegra Salvoni...

Knowing what's yours and what's theirs — even in the middle of intensity. When you have this, you can stay in difficult conversations without raging, falling apart or running away. You stop taking on what isn't yours to carry. You stop disappearing to keep the peace.
This is not about staying calm. It's about staying connected to yourself when stakes are high. Recognising when your nervous system has narrowed your choices before your mind catches up — and building the capacity to respond from a different state entirely.
The difference between leading from who you actually are instead of reacting from old patterns. When you develop this, you stop being run by the situation. Your decisions feel like yours. Your relationships become navigable. You stay with yourself - or if you slip - you recover quicker. Your decisions, values, and actions become aligned again. Not perfectly — but directionally.
Allegra changed my life.
As a CEO what kept me awake at night was relationships. Dysfunctional, non-performing, avoidant. And change, major life change.
Allegra helped me see into myself, and my experience of others, which gave me insight to help me better.
This enabled me to navigate the biggest changes in my life - building a business, transitioning the CEO role, divorcing, single parenting, moving house.
Thank you, AllegraÂ
Founder | Advisor to Founder CEOs
Allegra has guided me through understanding the deeper drivers behind my emotions and behaviours, helping me explore not just how I reacted, but why. Her ability to create a completely safe, supportive, and non‑judgmental space allowed me to examine long‑held patterns across both my personal and professional life. Through this work, I’ve not only changed my actions, I’ve genuinely changed how I feel and how I experience challenging situations.
Whatever your goals, professional growth, emotional understanding, improved relationships, or simply wanting to feel more at ease in your own skin, she has an extraordinary ability to help you uncover the insights and actions that will move you forward. Working with her has been one of the most valuable investments I’ve ever made in myself.
Staff Data Manager - Data Governance and Compliance Management
Allegra operates at a rare intersection of executive coaching and therapeutic depth, she understands the professional pressures leaders face while also meeting you fully as a human being.
She has an extraordinary ability to ask the question you didn't know you needed to answer.
If you are a founder, executive, or high-performer who is running on fumes and wondering why; reach out to Allegra.
Don't wait six months like I did.
Relationship-Driven Sales Leader | Startup Sales Expert
Being triggered is all-consuming.
You lose access to yourself and take yourself offline in a way that does not serve you, your team, your role, your family - but mainly yourself.
I created the Into Me See Method — a seven-step process that gives that experience structure, so you can work with it rather than be run by it.
True power is about being able to choose how you are going to deal with what life throws at you.
Work with me to shape your life in the way you want it. Your reactions will become responses and your actions intentional and, more importantly, choiceful.Â





Certified Embodied Facilitator Coach

Organization and Relationship Systems Coaching (ORSCâ„¢)


Body Oriented Coach Training



All are intensive and relational. The difference is time horizon and depth of scope. If you're not sure which fits, we'll figure it out together in a first conversation.
If something on this page has felt true — that's information. You don't need to have it figured out before you reach out. That's what our first conversation is for.
Working with Allegra has been genuinely transformative for me.
She combines steadiness with sharp insight, and I felt held and met in a way that made real, impactful change, possible. What stood out was how she helped me build relational capacity from the inside out — using a grounded, body-based approach to regulate under pressure, stay present in difficult moments, and help me remain connected rather than reactive.


I cannot sing Allegra's praises enough, she is incredibly gifted as a coach. Her warmth and authenticity shine through in every session. Things have transformed for me in the year that we've worked together in terms of how I show up in my job and how I show up for myself. She creates the necessary safety for my emotions to flow with my thoughts, which leads to deep and enriching exploration. We have had powerful conversations that I still reflect and learn from months later. Thank you, Allegra, for co-creating with me and helping me sit in the driving seat of my own life!

Victoria Chardon - Founder, Mothering Mindfully | Women’s Leadership and Matrescence Coach | Experienced Tech Leader
Allegra is a wonderfully warm and intuitive coach, gently holding space for you when needs be, but at the same time always keeping you challenged and on purpose. Her knowledge of several different disciplines is invaluable and gives her coaching a real depth and authenticity. You just know you're in really safe hands! Allegra guided me through a particularly difficult time in my personal life and a crossroads in my career, helping me to get from a place of real 'stuckness' to a place of empowering clarity. Since working with her I have embarked on a new career path, grown in confidence and taken on new challenges. I'm not sure I could have done it without Allegra's guidance and support and I recommend her without hesitation

Lucy Fleet -Â Film Publicist, Communications Consultant & Co-Active Coach
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